We live in a world where outward appearance, competition, and profit all seem to surround everything we do. Comparing your bang average skills to the gym rats and Picassos of social media is just a little too easy, and far too discouraging. So why spend time on a hobby just for the sake of it?
Strangely, there is something freeing about not caring if you can make a side hustle out of a skill. Even being anywhere near the best at it isn’t essential. At what age did we collectively decide to stop doing puzzles wrong or stop dancing without a single ounce of rhythm? If you are yet to be convinced, below are the reasons to let your hair down and enjoy a hobby just because you can.
Just For Fun
Going back to basics, your hobbies should be something you enjoy away from necessities like working and cleaning. Take the time to be daft instead of serious. You are the boss of your own spare time. Whether you prefer to watch Netflix or go swimming, all that matters is that you want to do it. It doesn’t matter if what you do isn’t trendy or you don’t look great. You might be the only person in your life that loves to cycle. And good for you! Away from pleasing others, if you’re excited to continue your hobbies that’s all you need. Make sure the activity puts a smile on your face though. If you hate running but like the accomplishment at the end of a run, it might be time to try something new.
Socialising
Want to meet new people who share your interests? Or just see friends more by doing something together? Clubs that focus on a hobby are a great way to meet new people. You might feel more comfortable doing your hobby with a smaller, more casual group that you already know, or tagging along to a friend’s activity group. Either way, you might like a hobby more because of the time you spend with others. This isn’t for everyone though. Some book worms might love the peace of silent reading, while others will be more at home chatting in a book club. Whatever floats your boat.
Physical or Mental Health
There’s no doubt that doing something fun has more benefits than making use of time. Active hobbies such as team sports or cooking could transform you into a fitness queen. But that is not to say so-called ‘sit down’ hobbies are not as good for your health. Your mental health will thank you equally for doing something creative and engaging just as much as working up a sweat. There is no one-size-fits-all for having a good time. But the happiness that typically stems from it is universal.
Everyone Starts Somewhere
I don’t know about you, but I’ve definitely been unwillingly subjected to advice along the lines of ‘practice makes perfect’. Although the takeaway message of this article is to do things because you enjoy them, not to compete to be the best, you never know what hidden skill you could find. Trying something new might result in you being a dab hand at knitting, or a natural at archery. You might end up being an amazing artist just because you paint so much. If not, and you are still a bit rubbish, well me too. Every year I try ice skating at my local Christmas markets, thinking I could secretly be the next Jane Torvill. Every single year I’m wrong. In fact, I spend more time falling over. But the experience is always a laugh.
Just Because You Can
More times than not, giving something a go is a better use of time that not bothering at all. Hobbies can be hobbies just because you live near to a craft shop, or your dad got you into tennis by playing at the park down the road. Personally, I’ve never had to go out of my way to do any of my hobbies, and I love being able to do them very (VERY) averagely. Not being instantly good at something should never be a reason to throw in the towel. If you have the opportunity to regularly do something – or try something new – why not have a go? The sense of achievement is worth it alone. What have you got to lose?
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